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[Updated With Winner] Praise Your Dad, Win $500

As we get ready for Father’s Day, Patch wants to hear about your dad and what makes him so great.

Editor's note: We have a winner! Please see our updated story to read the story submitted by contest winner Donna MacNeal. Congratulations! The Patch staff wants to thank everyone for such amazing, heartbreaking and laugh-out-loud comments about the first #1 man in your life, Dad.

Father's Day is days away and many of you may be wondering what you can give to your father to thank him for all that he has given to you.

Gifts can be thoughtful, but sometimes it’s the words that mean more, that show you truly care and appreciate what he did.

We’d like to give each of you the opportunity to tell the greater Philadelphia and Lehigh Valley areas why your father is so special and what makes him so wonderful. You may have a story you’d like to share or words of appreciation. We want to read it.

We are hoping to find some truly great Father’s Day stories, so please be sure to include your hometown in your post.

We’re so excited about getting these great stories that we’re offering $500 to one lucky person. You may want to share it with dad and take in a ballgame together, but that’s up to you. To enter, all you have to do is post your story or reflection of your dad in the comments area of this story. Please keep it to 100 words or fewer. (One entry per user.)  

If you’d like to upload a picture of your dad to this article, we’d love to see it (but you have to leave a comment to be eligible for the prize.)

Want to make sure you find out who won this contest? Go to the "Email me updates about this story" area below and click on "Keep me posted." You'll get an email when the winner is announced.

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Jessica Lucente June 13, 2012 at 02:54 pm
n Wednesday, June 13, 2012 What can I say about my dad. He's everyone's best friend. He is the guy you want at every party. He is a cancer survivor. He is a heart attack survivor. He is an ambassador of fun. He lives for his family. He sings to my mother. He rolls around on the floor with my dogs. He makes an amazing bloody mary. He once shot a shark with a shotgun. His college nickname is Oscar?? He danced with me and my friends till 3am at my wedding reception. He has the biggest heart and an even bigger personality. He is constantly laughing and making others laugh. He's allergic to honey, turkey, celery and strawberries...but he'll still eat turkey and suffer through it. He works to live but does not live to work. He loves my mother more than anything. He is my sister's best friend. He was always hard on me, but I respect that and am glad he was. I am just like him. He is my best friend. I love you dad. I'm so happy that you survived your bypass last month and walked me down the aisle. You are amazing and wonderful and to my friends you are the "world's most interesting man." We all love you so much. Happy Father's day. Jess Lucente, Newtown Square PA
Lanya June 13, 2012 at 04:45 pm
A nerdy engineer type, I liken my father to Kermit the Frog. He is kind, patient, a reluctant leader with a good sense of humor, strong, and supportive. If not for his guidance and example, I can’t imagine the person I would have become.
Frustrated with my post-college job hunt, I took a job that was far beneath my ability, and Dad softly told me that he was disappointed. I resigned before I ever started that job. That day, I learned not to sell myself short. For that lesson and many, many others, Thank you, Dad.
Peter June 13, 2012 at 05:01 pm
The phrase "they broke the mold after they made him" is corny, but perfectly describes my dad. There's just nobody i've met that comes close to him. He was the hardest working person i've known; tough, smart, kind, selfless, humble, and confident. I lost him when i was 26, and not a single day goes by that i don't wish i still had him around.
Chelsea Bucsek June 13, 2012 at 05:42 pm
Chelsea Bucsek
My father is an honest, hard working man. Coming from a rough childhood, he learned that no one can do anything better than he could if he wanted to make himself as successful as possible. And that's exactly what he did: He pulled himself together, working harder than anyone around him. Eventually he ended up with 5 wonderful children, all incredibly different and talented. After finding great success within himself, he's taught all of us that no one can be better than us at the things we're best at. To be the best, you must believe you are. I don't necessarily believe that I'm the best at what I do, but I do believe in myself because of him. And I truly believe that I came from the best dad around.
Cheryl Lee-Owens June 13, 2012 at 06:18 pm
My dad was my hero! He was strong and kind and noble and fair. He worked hard all of his life to provide and care for his family. He was the "TRUNK" of our tree and he sowed good branches which sprouted great leaves. He taught is the value of a good education, and that a person's good word was worth more than money. He taught us to serve and also to reap. Because of him I am self sufficient, proud, confident, and able. On this the second anniversary of his passing I reflect on his life and his impact on others and I humbly say, WELL DONE.
Julie McCormick June 13, 2012 at 07:23 pm
A Dad in a daughter's eyes is a man whom she can depend on. A man who played silly games with her while growing up. A man who was at the sidelines cheering her on at every soccer game. A man who taught her right from wrong. My Dad is all of these things and more. He is the strength and core of my family. He guided us when my sister, Sarah, his first born daughter, was murdered six years ago. That is something for which I will be forever grateful. Today my Dad is still the rock of our family and supports us in everything we do. Thank you Daddy!
Broomall, Pa
Tarajoy Mies June 13, 2012 at 07:53 pm
You may say that I am a traditional "Daddy's Girl". My two brothers and I have always looked up to my father with great respect,admiration & love. Beneath his tough loud exterior, there was always a teddy bear. We were never denied however we weren't deprived of all the things a child could need in a parent. He was always the one where Mom says "No" and Dad says "yes". At least in my case. My father's charisma with people is what I love so much about him. The way he is with people there has never been a person that didn't like him. I always watched in awe that he could just carry on a conversation with anyone and make a friend. That is one of the many qualities I thank him for giving me. Always showing us that the truly important things in life are all there is that matters. Those being each of us, a lovely wife, family, a roof over our heads and the bond between all. We were taught to be the riches in life and not the material things. Which we all know are great to have, but nothing can ever replace family.
Ann Wlazelek June 13, 2012 at 08:09 pm
My father, Robert Fenstermaker, was the most patient person I've ever known. I'll never forget the time I jumped in my Rambler, put it in gear and stepped on the gas only to fly backward instead of forward -- into the aluminum shed he had just erected! I was lucky I didn't run into him and all he did was shake his head. He was one of 12 kids who grew up on a farm and seldom raised his voice. In spite of working several jobs and serving in the great war, he found time to watch cartoons with his two girls and play with his only grandson. Wonderful man I'm glad/lucky to have had for a Dad
Susan Koomar (Editor) June 13, 2012 at 08:24 pm
Ann, I trust your driving has improved a lot since then! Thanks for sharing your dad tribute!
Amy Garger June 13, 2012 at 09:04 pm
I was blessed to have one of the greatest dads in the world, but I lost him when I was just 21 years old. I knew I’d never be able to share some of life’s greatest moments with him because my adult life was just beginning. However, when I married my husband, I also gained a whole new family… including Denny, my father-in-law. No one will ever be able to replace my dad, but Denny is the next best thing. He walked me down the aisle when I got married, and he helps me with whatever I need. Everyone who knows him, loves him. I’m just lucky enough to be able to call him my father-in-law. I wish him the Happiest Father’s Day possible because I am so happy to have a “dad” in my life again.
Patricia L. Lynn June 14, 2012 at 12:36 am
Patricia Fulton Lynn
An all American, curly redhead, burly football player who later became a Vietnam Vet, an employee of a local school, then a self employed businessman, my Dad has worn many hats in his life. He was an avid outdoorsman who taught me how to fish, hunt, shoot, build, apprieciate nature and how to have a good time out in it. He taught me responsiblity, however tough it was to get through the head of a strong willed teenage girl. He is the ultimate fighter,as he was struck with every physical ailment you can think of. It would have killed most people. Liver failure requiring not one but two transplants, diabetes, heart attacks, non-Hodgkins lymphoma, and most recently, kidney failure requiring dialysis. For all that he has been through, he continues to fight, the rest of us keep going and growing. He still teaches me to this day as I have been a dialysis worker for 15 years, and am now more totally understanding what my patients go through by listening to him. He will always teach us, my two young boys, and everyone who knows him how to just keep on going. Love ya Dad!
Mirella Palme June 14, 2012 at 02:21 am
My husband and I joke that as soon as you become a dad, you gain instant "dad" knowledge. We used to say this because my dad is the smartest man I know. He came here from another country when he was 21, yet has accomplished more than I can hope to accomplish someday. Happy Father's Day to all the amazing fathers out there!
Jodi Ireland June 14, 2012 at 02:56 am
My dad, Peter Carpenter's mantra (which I've adopted) is "Carpenters never quit." I love and admire this man who taught high school for over 40 years, taught me everything I know about home renovation, encouraged a love of all Philadelphia sports teams (frustrating though they are), Broadway and big band jazz, and demonstrated the importance of living a life of generosity, kindness, compassion, and humor.
jeanne ozzimo June 14, 2012 at 11:21 am
My father is the best! Besides doing a fantastic job raising 3 children, he continues to be hands on with 6 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren. He babysits, plays with them, chaperones field trips and attends sporting and school events. He is always in a happy and silly mood. He recently had to endure the most difficult experience any parent could go through-caring for his sick child every day and losing her, yet he still carries on and continues being an awesome Dad, Granddad and Great Grandfather! Oh, and did I mention, my Dad just turned 80?!!!
David Widmeier June 14, 2012 at 12:32 pm
My father was an amazing man. He raised me as a single parent from the age of two. He worked very hard to provide a safe and nurturing home. He made sure I had the best education available even if it meant he did without. Yes times were tough but he made sure I never wanted for anything. Every Christmas he would build a remarkable model train layout for me. Every summer we would go fishing and enjoy the rides in Ocean City NJ. When the circus came to town he would make sure he went to the ticket office and got us front row seats so I had the best view. My father was a man of little words. When he did speak he did not mix words he told you what he felt and why he felt the way he did. He was an honest man and he made sure I knew what it meant to be a responsible person in life. Now I am the dad and I get to pass on what he taught me to my kids. My Dad was my best friend and when he brought me into his Freemason Lodge we became Brothers. My Dad passed away in 2005 and every day I still aim to make him proud. When my father left this world I made sure he knew that I loved him and that he will always be a HERO to me.
Paula Law June 14, 2012 at 01:06 pm
My dad has an insatiable love for life that inspires me endlessly. His photos hang on my walls. Almost every song I hear, I hear in his singing voice. I’ve enjoyed many Norristown sporting events by his side and will never tire of hearing about his golf game. He is a lover of words and I am proud to have the dictionary that he so often sent me and my siblings to in my home today. His love of learning inspired my career path. He continues to be my best teacher. Happy Father’s Day Dad!
Krista Rompolski Taney June 14, 2012 at 01:59 pm
I grew in a very small coal mining town with simple people with simple lives. My Dad was no exception. He went to work and came home everyday. He never drank, never hurt a fly, and played golf like it was why the sun rose and set. He isn't an affectionate man. He doesn't say what he's thinking or feeling out loud, but is he ever funny. I credit my Dad with my irreverent, off-color and knows-no-boundaries sense of humor. It took my years to understand him and cope with a lot of things, but now I'm happy to spend the rest of my life appreciating the ways in which he loved me that I never saw until now. I love you Dad, just as you are.
Julianne Brostowicz Hartman June 14, 2012 at 02:21 pm
It’s easy to have great things to say about my Dad. He just spent a whole year taking care of me during Chemotherapy treatments for Ovarian Cancer. He has helped me and my husband, and our 3 year old daughter during all of it. He did what any Daddy would to do and he took care of his little girl, even though she is 32. Having the courage to be our smiling face every day will always mean the world to me. I promise now to be there every day for my Daddy as he now faces Prostate Cancer.
melissa shusterman June 14, 2012 at 02:46 pm
'Just do it!' was my Father's slogan far before NIKE sneaker company adopted it as theirs. My father has always viewed life as a combination of hard work and loyalty. This combination, according to Dad; should get one to any destination they desire. My Dad started dating my Mother in 5th grade (here in Phoenixville) and they have been together over 50 years. Talk about persistence and loyalty. They even graduated high school together. (He was voted 'smartest and she voted prettiest). My Dad always has a smile one his face and an ear to listen to his friends and families woes or needs. If I need help, my Dad is the one who will research and practically produce a doctorate thesis on how to solve my current problem or issue. He is equal parts smart and smiley. He grew up in Phoenixville and went on to be a graduate from University of Pennsylvania law school and then onto become a successful lawyer. His biggest success is the family he created and the fact that he is such a hands on 'Poppop' to my son. I have such respect for my father and how he treated his Mother and my Mother's parents as they grew older and into their 80's and late 90's. Never a complaint was heard from him for missing a chance to watch a game or do something more pleasurable then visiting one of them in a hospital, or at their home in an assisted living. To this day his smile never falters and for that I am extremely proud and lucky to have him healthy, hear and present this Father's Day!
Katie Walker June 14, 2012 at 02:53 pm
I've only recently realized how special my father is. He supports me, coaches me, and inspires me. When I was 6, and my brother was 4, my parents divorced. Without hesitation, my father gained joint custody, becoming a single parent to two young children, even as he lost his job, and worked to start a new life. I took this amazing gift for granted, until I got older and realized how rare it is for divorced fathers to take on this level of responsibility. The fact that my father is a great man makes him a great dad.
Clem Gerdelmann June 14, 2012 at 02:57 pm
I think I'd prefer to see the money go to victims of DBD, as in the blog, "Dead Beets".
Jack O'Donnell June 14, 2012 at 03:29 pm
As a child you just know you love your dad because he's your dad. As a teen, you learn to respect your dad because you begin to understand all the things he's done, and sometimes more importantly what he hasn't done, for you and your family. As an adult you realize that you've had your best friend and biggest fan right beside you all your life. Then you become a husband and a dad yourself. You realize how hard it can be at times but everything he's taught you with his words and his actions and all of his hard work and sacrifices have prepared you and made you the man you are today. Now you honor him and you love your wife and your children by being the best husband and dad that you can while you enjoy watching your hero become an even better pop pop.
Alison P June 14, 2012 at 03:32 pm
My dad has been battling mutiple myloma a cancer of the blood plasma for 7 and 1/2 years. Just before Easter we were told he had just 4 to 6 weeks to live if he did not choose to get his third stem cell transplant after having been through 2 already along with other horrendous treatments that had not be all that successful. My dad not having graduated college but instead being a tradesmen for his career has provided for my family in whatever way he could working many hours of overtime as a telecommunications specialist. After being diagnosed with cancer 7 years ago and having to go on disablity he started working with the township and became a township supervisor. He in my opinion has made a difference in North Coventry and the surrounding area securing open space and making the area a better place for me to raise a family when the time comes. He continues to make a difference dispite his own medical battles. He spends countless hours in the cancer center and in the last 6 months has spent 4 of them easily in the hospital enduring horrible treatment. He is and always will be my hero and I hope that one day I too will have the courage that he has.
Lindsay June 14, 2012 at 04:57 pm
At 12, I pulled pit crew duty for Dad while he raced cars, taking tire temps and clocking laps. At 16, he taught me to drive manual transmission and change oil in "my" car. In high school, I was my dad's date to a black tie event when Mom preferred to stay in. In college, he taught me how to do my taxes and cheered my women's rugby matches while wearing his own college rugby jersey. My dad babysat his infant granddaughter for months, proudly toting her around to his car club meetings. I was shaped in so many ways by this incredible father!
Peggy Whelan June 14, 2012 at 05:19 pm
I owe all I am to my Dad. It was my Dad who built me up, who made me feel invincible, and who gave me my sparkle. I thought I was beautiful, I knew I was smart, my jokes were hysterical, my flaws were insignificant and my goals obtainable. He built up my self esteem so that when mean girls and careless boys tried to take away that sparkle, I would not hand it over. He taught me my worth. He made me the woman that I am, the professional that I became and most importantly, now a great Mom. P Whelan, Collegeville PA
M. J. June 14, 2012 at 06:55 pm
My dad is my hero! So many little girls say that everyday, but in my life it is very true! My father was my hero 33 years ago when he and my mother adopted me. I truly do not know what my life would be like today if they hadn't taken me as part of their family. Even after that first act of adoption, my dad has proven day in and day out that he is a true hero. He has dedicated his life to helping others as a fire fighter, fire chief, safety officer, fire investigator, and emergency management coordinator. He has taken care of many boo boos and wiped away countless tears over the years. I have enjoyed standing next to him on the fire ground and also as he walked me down the isle to my loving husband 6 years ago. I love to watch him interact with my children and can see my kids look up to him as much as I do. I thank God every day for my dad and for all that he has done for me in my life! Without his example I do not feel I would be the woman or mom that I am today. Thanks dad! I love you! Melissa Janis, Bethlehem PA
John W. June 14, 2012 at 07:36 pm
My family surprised my Dad with a 90th birthday party last Saturday. If I have a quarter of his energy when I reach half his age, I will consider myself lucky. He taught me the life is for living, that family is most important and that your kids are your legacy. I learned never trust someone who lies to you and never lie to someone who trusts you. That Philadelphia sports teams and beautiful women often will break your heart but to keep coming back. And I learned to Mummer Strut, which is exactly what we did at his party John W. Collegeville
Josie Hall June 14, 2012 at 11:55 pm
Before I leave my comment I want who ever's reading this to know that I am not entering for the money, I'm entering to see that everyone knows how great a dad John Hall is. My dad is the best dad in the world because even though he works from 4:00 in the afternoon to 12:00 at night all the way in New York, he still finds time for me and my siblings. He still finds time to pull us out of school to go to a nice lunch, or to make it to our concerts and softball games. After riding two hours each way, everyday, six days a week, he still finds time to be the best dad ever.
Tim Prist June 15, 2012 at 02:58 am
My father is great, he has four kids and loves them all. He has always tried for us not to see him angry so we could remember him as a happy man. Although I'm only 14 years old and the oldest out of all four kids, my dad takes time listening to my problems or just talking about life. I really love my dad and even if I don't win the money it's great to let people know how great of a man my dad is.
Jen L. June 15, 2012 at 05:06 am
What I appreciate of my father is not only his hardwork ethic or his strong values in faith and family but mainly for his transparency as a person. Growing up, he seized every opportunity as a teachable moment for me and gave me insight to what really matters in life. He used his own life to show me that money, fame, etc., were all fleeting and taught me the value of faith, kindness and love. I am still learning but I am so thankful he has taught me how to navigate this journey called life.
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